Core concept

1:1 meetings are trust infrastructure.

They are not a calendar ritual. They are a recurring system for context, feedback, coaching, and support.

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Mental model

A useful 1:1 balances three roles: listener, coach, and operating partner. The manager should know which role is needed before giving advice.

Glossary

  • Signal: a repeated concern, emotion, or blocker.
  • Commitment: a clear action owned by someone.
  • Coaching moment: a chance to help the person think better, not just move faster.

Listen

Make room for the real issue before jumping to solutions.

Clarify

Separate facts, feelings, assumptions, risks, and decisions.

Commit

Close with action, owner, and timing, or state that no action is needed.